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December 16, 2007
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Accepting Yourself Unconditionally
By: Brian Tracy
How Are You Treated By Others?
Self-acceptance begins in infancy, with the
influence of your parents and siblings and other important people.
Your own level of self-acceptance is determined largely by how well you
feel you are accepted by the important people in your life.
Your attitude toward yourself is determined largely by the attitudes that
you think other people have toward you. When you believe that other people
think highly of you, your level of self-acceptance and self-esteem goes
straight up.
The best way to build a healthy personality involves understanding
yourself and your feelings.
Let the Light Shine In
This is achieved through the simple exercise
of self-disclosure. For you to truly understand yourself, or to stop being
troubled by things that may have happened in your past, you must be able to
disclose yourself to at least one person. You have to be able to get those
things off your chest. You must rid yourself of those thoughts and feelings
by revealing them to someone who won't make you feel guilty or ashamed for
what has happened.
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Understand What Makes You Tick
The second part of personality development
follows from self-disclosure, and it's called self-awareness. Only when you
can disclose what you're truly thinking and feeling to someone else can you
become aware of those thoughts and emotions If the other person simply
listens to you without commenting or criticizing, you have the opportunity
to become more aware of the person you are and why you do the things you do.
You begin to develop perspective, or what the Buddhists call "detachment."
Be Honest With Yourself
Now we come to the good part. After you've gone
through self-disclosure to self-awareness, you arrive at self-acceptance. You
accept yourself for the person you are, with good points and bad points, with
strengths and weaknesses, and with the normal frailties of a human being. When
you develop the ability to stand back and look at yourself honestly, and to
candidly admit to others that you may not be perfect but you're all you've
got, you start to enjoy a heightened sense of self-acceptance.
Do An Inventory of Your Accomplishments
A valuable exercise for developing higher levels
of self-acceptance involves doing an inventory of yourself. In doing this
inventory, your job is to accentuate the positive and minimize the negative.
Think of your unique talents and abilities. Think of your core skills, the
things that you do exceptionally well that account for your success in your
profession and in your personal life right now.
Think About Your Future
Think about your future possibilities and the
fact that your potential is virtually unlimited. You can do what you want to
do and go where you want to go. You can be the person you want to be. You
can set large and small goals and make plans and move step-by-step,
progressively toward their realization. There are no obstacles to what you
can accomplish except the obstacles that you create in your mind.
Action Exercises
Here are three steps you can take immediately
to put these ideas into action:
First, sit down with your spouse, or a good friend, and tell him or her
about something that is troubling you and is still causing you unhappiness.
Second, develop perspective on your problem by standing back from it and
imagining that it was happening to someone else. What advice would you give
to that person?
Third, think continually about the good experiences and accomplishments you
have enjoyed in the past. Remind yourself regularly that you are a pretty good
person and you've done a lot of good things in your life.
Positive Focus will
create the life that you want to live!
Negative people are like human black
holes. They drain your energy. They keep you from reaching your goals.
They stop your life!
The question becomes...
Would you like to know how you can stay positive, energized, and
powerful?
Would you like to accomplish all of your goals?
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